How do I make my boyfriend appreciate me?

you cant make someone appreciate or respect you either they do or they dont and if they dont then dont waste your time hoping that they will. men know excatly how they are going to treat a woman the day that they start dating you. look at little signs a guy give you when you first start dating that will show you how a guy will be x by 10 lol. if you dont like it at the begining then get out ccause it only gets worse not better hun. :)