Thursday, July 21, 2011

Why is it that ............................. Had to ask this?

Honey, don't try to hide the fag inside. I've embraced my own homosexuality and over three hundred penises in my life... and everything's just dandy. I'd suggest you do the same.

What can i make thats better or as good as cheesecake ?

I'm 14 i want to be a cook and i know what your thinking "he cant cook hes only 14" but heey ive won a pumpkin pie making contese and i was the youngest one and also you could make a pecan pie its just as thick as chese cake and if you make one add almonds to but crush them into bits makes the pie more flavorable also when it says to use sugar use brown sugar really helps email me tel me how it turns out frankm001@yahoo.com

Need help with friends urgently! I know it's long but PLEASE read...?

Hang out with the ones who aren't backstabbing you. The backstabbing girls don't sound like reliable friends. Plus what goes around comes around. Ella will eventually realize that the people she's hanging with *now* have been backstabbing her. Don't backstab yourself - it's not worth increasing the drama level.

If i have been accused of assault will that cause detriment to my partners claim for contact with his son?

My partner put in for contact of his son with an ex partner, the day after she recieved the papers 4 of her friends attacked me, obviously i have fought back. they are now claiming that i attacked them (because a sane person would attack a group of girls on her own) and are trying to have me arrested for assault......my partners ex has txt me after this incident and said that i ''played into their hands and now my partner will never be granted access'' is this correct?

Does frozen food last longer in a manual defrost freezer as opposed to a frost-free model?

I ask this because, it seems that the freezer in my fridge doesn't keep frozen food very long at all, and it is frost-free. I'm thinking that it might be better for the preservation of frozen food to buy a manually defrosting freezer and not have a problem concerning a freezer choosing the frost-free function to the detriment of the "keeping foods frozen" function.

Can pectin be used in baked goods like no bake cheesecake?

I don't think it will work to replace the gelatin in non-bake cheese cake because it probably won't distribute evenly or thicken the cheese cake properly.

How can I stop myself re-visiting something that causes arguments?

Its basically something that came up in my relationship 2 years ago when we first started out. And we kind of sorted it but I've never been able to stop going back and bringing it up. It sounds stupid but its to do with porn, and me accusing him of watching it as he used to when i first got with him. We row about it and he gets embarrassed over it, he says he doesn't look at it anymore but I can't seem to let it go/believe him and its tearing us apart really. I know this is something ridiculous, I don't know whats wrong with me :/ I just can't get to grips with it and let it go!! any advice at all would be good.

Who is the "bad person" in all of this?

Your mother is completely crazy. I am so sorry. I feel bad. I thought I had it bad. If I were you I just wouldnt take that ****.

What are the benefits and detriments to a federal flat tax?

If you are rich you benefit by paying less. If you are poor it is a detriment because you have to pay more.

Are the baby boomers the worst American generation of all time?

I feel like these people have destroyed many of the gains their parents made to the detriment of their kids. Any problem the 18-25 generation has can be traced to all the BS we were brought up on.

Can you freeze milk without detriment to taste and texture?

Sure. Just remember to give it time to defrost naturally - if you heat it up, that can affect the taste (if it burns).

Chocolate cheesecake? master bakers help!?

Hershey's makes a baking chocolate that is perfect for chocolate cheesecake . It is located in the baking ingredients aisle.It is already melted chocolate inside a foil packet. Contains 6-8 to a box, pre-measured 1 oz each. Simply squeeze one packet into your recipe and mix thoroughly. If it needs more chocolate add another.Bake as your recipe states.= ) I looked at my recipe and it is almost the same as yours but I also add 1/3 cup sour cream and 2 Tablespoons flour to the basic recipe....Chocolate and sour cream together in cheesecake= YUM = )

What does it mean to be "integrated enough"?

I keep hearing this from several people telling those of us, who are first-generation Americans and the offspring of immigrants, that we are not "integrated enough". As long we speak English, become educated, and contribute to American society, why should it matter what we do on our personal time? If we prefer to be around others who are culturally like us during our personal time, what is the problem? This is not a detriment to American society or illegal.

If the woman is 36 and the guy is 21, is it REALLY that awful?

If he is good to you and treats you like a queen...stick it out with him. Don't let his age ruin what you have if what you have is happiness. If he is genuine and trustworthy, you should believe him.

I got put in the smart-student group by mistake, but my teacher wouldn't pull me out of it?

if theres a way you can stay and deal with being uncomfortable so that you can learn from them you should

Why are some people contradicting like this? How can someone hate cheese but like pizza and eat it with cheese?

It's like the whole 'I hate tomatos but like ketchup', 'I hate avocado but like guacomole', 'I hate strawberries but like strawberry ice cream' thing. I don't think its that they dislike the general flavor, but maybe the tecture or whatever condition it's in. Eating just cheese, is kind of gummy and squishy, and I see how some people don't like that. Eating cheese on pizza, you have the sauce to give it more flavor, it's warm and isn't so gooey, so people like that. I myself and not much of a plain avocado gal, because it's too goopy and weird feeling in my mouth for me. The flavor is fine and when made into guac where it has lemon juice and stuff on a corn chip, avocado has a whole new tecture and I love it! It's like that.

What happens if aries and libra are absent for the natal chart and the are also intercepted in the houses?

Mars is in detriment in taurus and falls in the 4th house and venus is in capricorn in the 12th house. gemini and sagg are duplicated in the 5th & 6th and 11th & 12th.

Can I re-pot a Christmas cactus with all new dirt, essentially bare-root it?

I have a small Christmas cactus that needs repotting. Only it has a white mold all over the topsoil. A 1:20 solution of H2O2 only slowed the growth and I didn't want to risk burning it with a low level bleach solution. Scraping the top layer of soil won't work in this case either. I'd like to strip all the dirt away and re-pot it in a mix of fresh soil. Can you essentially take the plant down to the bare root and re-pot it with no detriment to the plant?

How bad is Mercury in it's detriment and peregrine?

I've been looking into classical Astrology and Essential Dignities. I have discovered that my Mercury is both Peregrine (has no dignity) and is in Sagittarius, a sign of it's detriment. How bad is this in a natal chart?

My friend is committing benefit fraud?

My friend is claiming over �2,000 per month on benefits (ESA and disability under two different identities) and is working (8 hours per day) for a homeless charity, whilst also donating around �1,800 to various homeless charities each month. I'm wondering of how I can prevent this, the reason due to this becoming a sincere detriment to other individuals attempting to apply for benefits (especially those who are in dire need of them).

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Since Hitler believed in Jesus will he get free ticket to heaven?

Hitler killed the Jewish people because he accused them of being Jesus killers and problems to humanity. So since Hitler accepted Jesus into his heart (known fact) would Hitler be granted free ticket to heaven>?

What are common after effects of bulimic behavior?

That is normal after so long. Eventually, if things aren't worse than you or we (answerers) know of, things should improve. The important thing is to find what you can eat for now. Oatmeal might be good, as well as cottage cheese, and of course fruit and veggies. If you can, find a way to get some protein. Tofu or beans if you can't handle meat or fish yet. I haven't been through what you have, but I hope you can get through this quickly. I'm glad you are smart enough and strong enough to stop. Just go slow, and if you need to, it's ok to talk to a doctor, as long as you convince them you are mentally stable (they tend to worry about eating disorders as a mental problem. you know...) Good luck and get better. Yay you. be strong.

If you were to die, what would you like your last meal to be?

lol mine would be all of my favorite foods plus tea :) Wow, I see you've got it down, but I'm too lazy to name mine, but I'd mainly want all of the chips and Wendy's that I could afford! :D

How to prove to somebody I didn't do it?

my family is accusing me of doing something which I didn't do, they are saying i went into my cousin cell phone account and blocked her texting, I didn't do it they think its fishy just because i told her that she was eligible for a upgrade and I wanted to her to get a new phone. I didn't do it but I have no actual way to prove i didnt they wont look at my internet history. I just dont know what to do. PLEASE HELP!

I need a recipe, please help!?

I went to a bake sale and got some no bake cheesecake cookies. They are like the chocolate ones as for texture but I need to know how to make the cheesecake version. By tasting them I can tell there is creamcheese in them. They are SO good and I would love to make them at home! Please help!

Birthcontrol Pill First Time Use?

I honestly do not think it matters when you start the pack. Starting the Sunday after your period keeps your cycles on track from the start. However, since you are irregular anyways it isn't as important. Also, the pills will probably regulate your cycle after a few months. I would just start it this coming Sunday. You might have some weird bleeding at first, but it will work itself out.

Why is circumcision performed?

Is it religious? I'm catholic, but why is this done to newborns? Is it a health precaution? What are the benefits and detriments if so?

My relationship with my boyfriend whose already married?

Well I'm with this guy and he's married and has 4 kids but his wife and him is no longer together... She's in his country with his kids and he's living in new york now... I met him in my job at a deli store working together.. We became close and fell inlove and now live together for 6months almost seven.. Well he supports his kids by sending money every week... but no contact wit his wife .. Nothing wit her anymore.. And hasn't got divorced as yet because she's in mexico and he's here and seems impossible at the moment.. But I wanna know does he really love me or wanna settle wit me ? He spends a lot of time wit me .. No friends no drinking or smoking or going out.. And he works .. But expressing his affection is sumtimes hard .. He says he want to have a serious life wit me .. But its like I don't really no if he loves me ? I love him very much.. But. I don't no.. Sumtimes he's happy sumtimes no and I can't understand him.. I can tell u this much.. He's illegal in new york.. N he says he isn't wit me for my citizenship n how he can careless cause I told him it aint gonna happen.. N he doesn't even have a passport.. So he can't get his papers thru me.. But other than that do u think he has love for me ? I mean we go out a lot go to the park go out diners go out to the beach.. Make sweet love.. U no its nice.. But I hate the fact approcahing him for sex.. But he never refuses.. He never cheat as so far I no.. He doesn't even have a cell phone to cheat n all his friends no about me n his kids to .. Only his parents doesn't cause there in mexico n the phone line for them is not working.. He talks about a future wit me . Jus we fight over stupid things like him coming home 20mins late... I would accuse him.. I don't no y I have hard time trusting him.. He hasn't given me a reason not to trust him.. But I love him jus unsure if he loves me to although he says he does..

Perjury on a driving log?

So, I'm turning 17 this month, and I have yet to acquire my driver's license. A lot of that has to do with laziness and not having time to focus on it earlier in the year, but that's another story. So, I have to document 50 hours of driving, with exact dates and amounts of time. Even though I did make sure that I've driven well over 50 hours, I have no clue when I did the driving. I'm planning on just filling out random dates and times, and then getting my dad to sign it. At the bottom, though, it says: "I swear or affirm that the information I have entered on this form is correct. I understand that making a false statement may constitute the crime of perjury." What I'm asking is whether or not that's just there to scare kids into actually driving instead of being lazy. Also if they'd actually make any attempt to accuse someone of perjury, or am I just too cautious?

Whats the best Ben and jerry's ice cream to eat at a movie?

I really want to know what u think and also what the best flavor if you have tried them all so far i have tried, baked alaska, half baked Alaska, cookie dough, phis food, strawberry cheesecake so what do the others taste like ? :)

My dad's into this idea of a "proper meal"? Who's wrong?

Why don't you tell your doctor to back you up on this for your family? He should understand the situation just based on the fact alone that your other family are built the same way.

Why is it acceptable to release the name of?

there is no presumption of innocence anymore. jesus look at the secret prisons all over the world housing people that shared a village with a terrorist!

Is cheesecake a summer recipe?

If it is explain why and if it is not please give me and actual summer recipe and explain why it is a summer recipe.

Is this a good philosophical quote for a young man to remember?

I'd say this is very good advice. Just remember that every action has a reaction, good or bad. And remember that Niezsche allegedly died of syphilis. So guard your woody with a helmet.

Hubby keeps accusing me of liking other men?

If you are going to get accused of cheating and suffer the punishment for it, why not DO it and at least get some pleasure out of it. If you really want him to stop, I can help you out! IM me or email me for help. Click my name for contact info.

Where to go and will i look okay?

hi, im cyanne im 14 turning 15 on august 4 and i was wondering what places to go for my birthday. i do not want a party or anything i just want to go out with my family but i dont know where to go red lobster, cheesecake factory, movies, i dont know any ideas please thanks. I'll be dressing pretty fancy like a black pencil skirt with a nice blouse(tucked in of course) with 4 inch heels.Will i look okay? .. or is it too much

World History help (((answer check)))?

Did you read the book? if you read the book and took notes, study those and you won't have issues mate! :)

Two Names in One Family?

I like the name Victoria too. But If you like the name doesn't matter what others think as long as you like it. And im sorry that happened and shes over reacting about not letting her dad see HIS DAUGHTER! She didn't make her alone. The girl should be able to see her father. But I guess It's up to her. =/ And good luck Or maybe you can make Victoria her middle name :P

I keep dreaming about my boyfriend's ex...?

I'm not quite sure why you're obsessing about her. To be honest, it's almost like you have a bit of a crush on here. As awful as that probably sounds to you, it's not that out of the ordinary. There could be attributes that she has that you want to adopt to keep your boyfriend close, which could behind a bit of a crush. Anyway, I don't really think there's any cause to worry here. He has given you no indication that he has any intention of leaving you for her. He may think about her occasionally, but that's only natural given their relationship. As you get older, you will find this more and more no matter whom you date. Everyone is going to have a history and have some baggage, and you just need to learn to handle it and not let it derail your relationship. Every guy will have some girl who got away, some ex he still thinks of fondly, etc...you just have to trust the person you're with and have confidence in yourself.

How long to wait to tell ex and his family about the pregnancy?

First off. i hate him. with a passion. He has gone out of his way to absolutely ruin my life in the last year and I honestly never want to see his face again. But I won't deny him his child. I would like to wait until I'm in my second trimester.. because I had a miscarriage 2 years ago, and he accused me of lying about the pregnancy, and that hurt a lot. So I want to wait until the risk of miscarriage goes down.. I don't know how to tell him either, he has a new girlfriend now and I know it's going to cause a lot of drama, and his mom and I left on bad terms so I know she's gonna be a down-right bitchh about it and try to control the entire situation..... any advice?

Do you think Hubert webb is guilty or not guilty on Vesconde masacre?

The NBI and justice sec de Lima said Hubert webb was in the Phil during the crime incident of the Vesconde family, now, why the supreme court released the accuse ?

Starters: Scallops with what? Main: Beef Wellington with what? Cheesecake?

Scallops w wrapped bacon. Beef Wellington w mashed potatos and gravy and perhaps green beans? and yes ny style cheesecake! yum! lol

Shouldn't the person who accused the former IMF chief of sexual assault be identified and have her face shown?

If people accused of rape are dragged through the mud with their image plastered on television, so should those who lie, like Crystal Mangum.

Angles in chess mean anything?

I'm not by any means a skilled chess player, but notice when I do play, my mind instinctively and unbeknown to my conscious perception, tends to created 45* angles with my pieces and I have no clue why. I'm just curious if there is any benefit or detriment to this as I find it odd.

Cooking a cheesecake without a springform tin alternatives?

I have a deep circled tin to cook it in. I know not having a springform tin will make it difficult to take out - will lining the tin with baking paper and tinfoil do the trick in a normal tin?

My ex boyfriend says he still has love for me but...?

He KEEEPSSSSS adding half naked girls on Facebook and he's still treating me like I'm invisible ...I am trying to get him to come see me soon ...n he says he'll try...don't tell me to just get over him...he was the only boyfriend I ever had that was good to me! Our relationship was extremely well! I only broke up with him because his mother was Jehovah witness and as he moved in with her the last couple of months of our relationship..she forced him to go the halls with her and etc.and as soon as she stole my number out of his phone while he was sleeping kept texting me and saying we should be apart.I didn't listen because I felt what she was doing was wrong and I was in love with him! Soon she started sneaking though his phone again read all our texts and saw all our pics together.also just cause she seen a little of my cleavage in a shirt in a picture she started accusing me me of sending him innapropiate pictures of my BREAST! which she very much so exaggerated ..she even written my mother! She threatened me that if I didn't break up with him she would show my father at school all my pictures and text that he n I sent to each other! It's not lady like to like be jealous an threaten.also I know she had a problem with a wag I looked and not just because of her religion because at first she wouldn let us go anywhere together or any of that.but now he's having parties with boys and girls and he's also texting and adding them in Facebook! Alot of people think she was just jealous..anyways its hurting me each and everyday but he doesn't understand exactly why I broke up with him...SHE TOLD ME SHE WOULD PUT HIM OUT!!! I didnt want to see that...so I did what was best! What should I do! I'm hurting so much..please no rude comments I really don't need it ...everybody thinks shes crazy...AND TO TOP IT OFF AFTER THAT I FORGAVE HER BECAUSE SE ASKED FOR MY FORGIVENESS THROUGH A TEXT AND THAN SHE KEPT PREACHING TO ME ABOUT HER BIBLE..knowing I was still hurting from her making me leave her son...btw he graduated this year I graduate 2012 ;) thanksss

American Themed 21st Birthday Party food ideas?

Rice-A-Roni, the San Francisco treat! Hot dogs, anything bar-b-qued, especially ribs, corn on the cob, it's really kind of difficult because we always have stuff that didn't originate here, like chips and salsa and pizza.

My boyfriend thinks he's ALWAYS right...?

whatever i say is either wrong or non existent. like he asked me about the requirements for getting held back a grade in school and i told him what they were and he declared that i was wrong. then i said he abused me and he started saying he's never hit me or raped me and i said he VERBALLY abused me and he started saying there was no such thing! he gets bad grades so he accuses me of cheating just because i have good grades. and when i tell him im texting a friend he ALWAYS guesses that its another guy and he wont take no for an answer. it gets so annoying how he thinks he's always right. he's even said "im always right" andd when i say no he stillll argues! he even argued with me about our anniversery andd my eye color! like wtf. those are two things im positive i have the right answer to! what should i do ?!

Did lebron really choke....or is the nba fixed!!!!?

If the NBA Finals was fixed, why did the Heat have more free throw attempts than the Mavericks? It wasn't fixed, the Mavericks legitimately won the NBA Finals.

Are there Harry Potter games I can play on my laptop?

Yes, you can get harry potter and the philosophers stone,prisioner of Azkaban and the chamber of secrets i have them all.

What Can I Do About This Toxic Family Situation?

Your dad and brother need to sit down and TALK. And with all that you are going through, you need a professional. And Jesus. (not kidding)

Can an emancipation in washington state be overturned?

i was granted an emancipated last week with my mom contesting it based on the fact of "clear and convincing evidence that denial of the grant of emancipation would be a detriment to the interest of the minor." so my petition was granted and i am happier than ever to be out of my mothers house, it was a very verbally abusive and toxic environment, and the judge saw that. i spoke with my mom today and she said she is going to fight it, she says that the judge that i went before was a temporary judge, and she thinks that makes the emancipation invalid. she is going to fight this thing tooth and nail, i just want to know if she ahs any standing, and if an emancipation decree can be overturned or repealed in washington state?

R&S: Isn't it hypocritical to accept evolution but still also believe that poor people?

Should be fed, clothed, and sheltered? I am not going to deny that evolution through natural selection is an established fact, however, why do then so many people who claim to accept evolution also believe that poor people should be fed, clothed, and protected all at the expense of the rich and powerful? Our ancestors evolved by being the most powerful and most ruthless so they could mate and provide for their offspring, while the poor and the weak died off and were weeded out of the gene-pool. Why did that change? Can rational people not see that poor and weak people are a detriment to our advancement as a species?

Who picks the jury for a federal trial?

You haven't learned much in your classes yet have you. You don't accuse someone of a Federal Crime, you take your suspicions/evidence to the Federal Prosecutors office in your district and they follow up with a formal investigation. Federal jury pools are selected from a district wide list and most often from residents of the city in which the court is located. Since those are usually large cities the pool being local prevents the possibility of having to commute long distances to serve.

Does anti-depressant medication work for depression?

What is your experience, what are the benefits and detriments? Any negative side effects? Wondering if with my disability this would help me feel any better, I have pain a lot of the time and my life has changed dramatically after a car accident many years ago. Some help for pain at lower levels, but I am wondering if it would help me feel better emotionally if I take a higher dosage for depression. Haven't started taking one yet. What anti-depressant has worked for you if you have found one that works.

History question.. please help?

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Tuesday, July 19, 2011

What is the point in eating dessert?

What's the point? What's the point? you are asking the wrong question. you should be asking why don't some people eat it? anyways, the answer is because sometimes, you may still be hungry at night, and you might feel too tired to cook, or you just want something to eat. dessert is the best thing ever. and it doesn't even have to be at night. you can have dessert at 1:30 if you want.

My Sixteenth Birthday is Coming up and I need ideas!?

Okay, so, my 16th birthday is coming up. It's going to be around one month from now and will fall on a Friday. Places I've really wanted to go like The Cheesecake Factory were turned down because the wait would be too long on a summer Friday night and then other places like in Manhattan like Stardust Diner was shut down because my grandmother wouldn't be able to walk for too long in the city... so, right now, I'm running out of ideas :( , I would really like to know anybodies ideas here so just let me know what restaurants you like that can range from chains or are in the tri-state area!

Letter received...possible slander?

Did you bad mouth her husbands work in public? That would be slander but she is blowing gas about suing you. They are in this together, he is a shirker and she is an enabler. Ignor it but zip your lip, there is a reason why you do not air your linen where the public can listen in and that include on your cell phone in a shop or other public setting.

I had an upper molar extracted. Are there dire consequences if I don't fill the space?

15 years ago I had the same one removed and I was told I would have to get cadaver tissue sewn in to replace the gap and that I better get a bridge in there and all sorts of crap or else my gums would recede and all of my teeth would separate and fall out. I said "be fukkin' that cadaver sh!t!" and I left it alone and never went back. I have had ZERO problems. None of my teeth have moved at all. I can chew fine and it doesn't show. Stupid ay-hole money grubbing scum dentist! I stopped going to him way back. The dentist I've had since then told me the ay-hole should have lost his license because he didn't know what he was talking about. BTW, I'm nearly 50.

Detriment planets/signs attract the opposite sex. Has anyone else noticed this?

For example, Mercury in Pisces and Venus in Aries seem to attract the opposite sex more than other placements?

What do I do!? Husband is secretative and lies to me about silly stuff!?

We have been married for 10 years, He has always like to watch porn , but recently he has been on SEVERAL adult dating sites some say couple looking for.. etc and some say single man looking for etc... I tried to talk to him about this but he blows it off like it is no big deal but then past 2 weeks he has changed the password to an email that we set up together and the pass code to his new Iphone that he is on 24/7 recent issue was my b-day my mom and sister and the kids did the whole cake and candles because the past 3 b-days have SUCKED he did not even come out of the bed room all day was on the computer and only came out late afternoon and got on the phone with his parents and then spoke to his sister until late that night oh and it was also Father's day! which brings me to my sister in law ... we were great up until 2 years ago his family lives out of state in FL wanted us to move there but it was not the right time for us to move she blamed me and on our last trip there gave me the cold shoulder the entire time which made my husband do the same I noticed the last few days they were whispering a lot more but I didn't pay them any attention but found out why on the Long drive home! Half way home still had 6 hours to go my husband unleashed a horrific fury on me calling me a thief liar pathetic it was catastrophic with the kids in the car accused me of stealing his 12yr old niece's perfume.... He allowed his sister to go through my purse and remove a bottle of perfume that MY SISTER had gotten me on my b-day. needless to say they found his niece's bottle under her bed wrapped in a towel .. my husband not one time took up for me ... or even really apologized for not standing by me!!! He has 2 kids from a previous marriage and we have 2 boys together my sister in law flew the other 2 kids to FL last year without even thinking of these boys.. I was furious because my oldest was very upset then christmas she sent the other 2 a present to our house not the boys one when I politely told her to please from on send packages to their mom's house she went off on me in text calling me all kinds of things and said that they were mixed up she sent them all at the same time but on the package the date was 4 days after our conversation. Now she has done it again the other 2 are in FL now with her and my kids do not know yet we didn't know last year till the post of facebook! When I try to talk to him about his sister and MY issues with her he gets ballistic puffs up like a blow fish and defends her every action and doesn't even listen to me we don't speak for a while then he acts like nothing happen! Well I am sick and tired of all of this I don't know what to do am I overreacting or what can I do ... he doesn't take up for me at ll I don't feel like he has my back at all!!! HELP ME

Can I still pursue my dream job in marketing and advertisment with a class b (theft) misdemeanor record?

I am a sophomore going on junior in college majoring in marketing with a minor in spanish I recently was charged with a misdemeanor of shoplifting which i am NOT proud of as it was a detriment to my family and now future. I always wanted to become a buyer for a high end retail corporation. should I give that up and look to other career options or can I still go forth with my goals? this was also the ONLY time I have ever been in trouble with the law.

Do you think black people have it better than Asian guys?

Yeah asians got it rough. Its still "ok" to make fun of them in the media, but lordy lordy don't insult a black dude. Don't worry, all asians know karate so thats cool i guess (just kidding)

How do you answer inappropriate questions while remaining respectful?

Celebrities might have some talent as any of us to answer such questions but they have professional staff for that who coach them how to behave yourself in tricky situations. The best advice I can give that you have to do basic preparation for any interview meaning you have to define which theme you can touch and which one you do not while answering questions. For example, if you do not like questions about personal life or how many employees you're going to hire just smile and go politely to another question. This is not easy but it comes with experience.

If a guy wants to spend all his freetime with you = he's in love?

My love interest wants to spend all his freetime with me. We see each other everyday, even if it's only for a few minutes. But, typically it's for hours. He makes me dinner all the time, says goodnight everynight, texts me first think in the morning, gives me cheesecake and shopping with him when I'm down, etc,

Am I healthy/fit? Any advice?

i guess today was your pig out for lunch day. not too healthy but if its not consisitent its should be fine

Real housewives of orange county?

Well, I think they have to stay in the same group of women because it is in their contract to do so. I think they are all evenly bad in their own way.

I have been with my boyfriend five years im 22 he is 30 i accuse him alot and nag him alot its like a disease?

i cant stop he takes care of home he does for my little girl and she is not his we have one on the way though and it will be his first child. My problem is that i found a condom in his coat pockett three years ago he said he didnt use them i found it again this year once and last year once i know he cud be lien but he swears me down he does not cheat. I wanna believe him and give him the benefit of the doubt. Should i forgive him....this man does anything for me and my child and now im carrying his first child do you all think he can change if he is cheating. I really cant say he is doing anything he is always with me and is in the house early everynight now since he found out im pregnant. were having a girl. How can we make this work? He does not seem to wanna be with anybody else he says he wants to get married and b a family idk what to do but i know i should stop nagging him so much being that he brings in the bread

Good slogan for restaurant?

We have to do A french menu for for french of course, and I was thinking of the name Deja Vu for the restaurant name (Is it good? Can you help me think of something else?) I was thinking of adding a slogan, maybe for extra credit? Please help it's due on Wednesday! My name is Daniella by the way.. My restaurant is kind of fancy, somethings include, Thai chicken strips, mustard grilled salmon salad, honey berry smoothie, white chocolate cheesecake, tropical shrimp kebab etc..

If the sky were green instead of blue, how would that affect the earth?

Atmospheric composition is one possiblility. It could also occur if the sun was slightly further from the earth (like at sunset when the sky turns orange/red/yellow). Green is slightly longer wavelength than blue.

What are the detriments of having a facebook?

It's a form of sizing everyone up. Who is good who is bad who is rich who is poor who has the most friends and who is the happiest. Boring. Real life isn't all that. And if you ever read something sad it makes it bad too. So realize you weren't born a copy you were born an original. For you that means facebook isn't for you. That is leadership through example. Good job.

Ladies, could this be what is keeping me from dating and finding a mate?

Ok, so I am NOT like your stereotypical male who has just turned 30. You see, due to my decision to join the Marines, I am just now getting my undergraduate degree. I left the Marines at 23, moved to Colorado's second largest city for a job, got laid off after 3 years and started my post-secondary education here. I have posted this exact same information innumerable time on dating websites and women don't want to have anything to do with me. I am not grossly overweight nor am I obese. I suspect that women think that it is extremely odd that I am my age and am still in college. You see, truth be told, serving in the military as an enlisted person actually puts you behind with respect to getting a decent job that pays a living wage in the real world. When you leave the military without a degree, employers view you as no better off than any other average Joe who has just graduated from high school. So, in essence, you pretty much piss away four, five, or even six years of your life by not going to college BEFORE joining the military. Seriously ladies, I think that women here in COS, Colorado view me as some type of loser since I don't already have a degree and a job. I suspect that not having a good paying job is perhaps the biggest detriment towards me being able to find someone. Would YOU personally reject a guy because he is my age and doesn't have all of his ducks in a row simply because he formerly served in the military? Please remember that not everyone has the privilege of being able to take the traditional path to college straight out of high school and landing a regular job thereafter. I sure didn't and it has most certainly negatively affected my ability to date and/or find a wife. There are no single women in Jax, NC who AREN'T Marine wives.

Atheists are accused of not "wanting" to believe in the Christian god to get out of "judgement"?

According to the bible, Jesus said during his Sermon on the Mount, that we need to forgive others in order for God to forgive us. It's not believing that is important. It is forgiveness. Many "Christians" like to skip over that part.

Ramadan--how would you feel if ~~~~~~~~?

How would you feel if you spent Ramadhan in a cell being tortured physically, mentally, emotionally & verbally. What would the state of your imaan be like? How would you feel knowing that this Eid, you'll spend your time with those people again, who've falsely accused you of being a terrorist without evidence & have detained you for upto 8 years without charge? How would you feel if the Ummah did NOTHING to help.

The Victim was wrong?

The victim in our case had falsely accused 3 people and knows the real person and sent a letter stating that they let the people in go they did not do anything but told them the person who really did what happens now? Does it get dropped on us or what?

Shaquanda: Those names have zero ties to Africa?

so why do they give these names to their children? Why do they all copy each other when it is to their detriment?

Monday, July 18, 2011

Can my landlord still charge me for "damages" if he already returned my security deposit?

My landlord returned the security deposit within 30 days of the end of the lease (like he was supposed to according to law), but on top of having deducted money for normal wear and tear (e.g. touch up paint, bathroom cleaning fees, etc), he's now asking for more money for damage that we supposedly did to the house even after he'd already returned our deposits. Can we just ignore him? Sue him? Or do we still have to argue with him over every little thing he's accusing us of?

Is Learning 3 Languages at Once Realistic?

So I'm very good at languages. I tutor English and Spanish and I am currently taking French and am catching on very quickly. I also want to learn Arabic and Russian as quickly as possibly. I am getting the Rosetta Stone (not the best program, but I can get it for free) for Arabic, Russian, and French. Is it realistic to learn all three at once? I'm also taking 5 classes in college. I think because the languages are so different from each other that I won't get them confused, but that is also a detriment because it is three completely separate grammatical rules and vocabulary that I need to learn. Should I just stick with French? Or French and Arabic and wait a little bit till I start Russian? Within ten years I want to be fluent in those three and another. Any suggestions? I was thinking Pashto or Farsi. Possibly German.

Easy No-Bake Little Ingredients Dessert?

I am 13 years old and my oven doesn't work. Can you give be some quick and easy recipes to make? I only have the simplest ingredients to work with. I don't have pudding or jello. Nothing to fancy though! I already tried making No Bake Cheesecake and No bake key lime pie-never again.

Is The United States a victim of its own success?

You lost me when you said our society is highly educated. Polls show that 1/4 of Americans think the sun revolves around the earth. 1/3 of Americans can't name which country we defeated in the Revolution. And let's not even get started on the evolution deniers...

How much do dessert finishers/baristas make at The Cheesecake Factory?

Im a Baker at CCF and I make $10.50 but im also Certified As a cashier. I work in NY so it all depends what state but mist of us started around 8-9 an hour. And some people make up to 12!! Good Luck!! Cheesecake Rocks!! Lol

Falsely Accused: Escape Game?

Can someone please tell me everything I'm supposed to do on thus game?? I've resetted the game 4 times & done everything but it seems like I'm doing something wrong. HELP!!

Need more proof that conservative policies work and liberal policies don't?

The article you cite is a rightwing rant in a rightwing rag owned by the looney Rev. Sun Myung Moon (who actually thinks he's god). Your entire post is, in fact, a rant. Obama's stimulus saved us from another republican Great Depression. The fact that it didn't do better is because repubs and CONservaDems weakened the legislation far too much.

How can I stop feeling insulted whenever somebody accuses me of being a Christian?

I know I live in the South, and "Christian" essentially means "decent human being" down here, but it's kind of offensive to presume that one must be a believer to have ethics..

Use this word in a sentance please?

THE EARLY 1940S WAS A NOCUMENT AND DEVISTATING TIME FOR THE JEWISH COMMUNITY IN EUROPE , THIS WAS CAUSED BY THE PRACTICE OF ANTISEMITISM

Is age a factor in law school admissions?

I am 30 now, I'll be 31 when I apply for law school, and if I got in I would go in as a first year student at age 32. Is my age a detriment to my chances?

How do I tell when my vegan cheesecake is done cooking?

It's been in a 350F oven for fifty minutes (it said to do 40, until it looked firm. Which it didn't, but I was afraid of over-cooking it), then I shut off the oven and left it in for half an hour. It's still pretty jiggly and the edges are just barely darkening. Will it crack like I hear a normal cheesecake is supposed to?

Cooking opinions please- cheesecake?

As usual, at school, we have to do cooking and this week we are making cheesecake! We have to choose to either make chocolate cheesecake, lemon cheesecake or strawberry cheesecake. We can't do plain cheesecake. I have had chocolate cheesecake which I do not really like, but I have not had lemon or strawberry, which one should I cook. Put in order from your most favourite to least, thanks!

I have been with my boyfriend five years im 22 he is 30 i accuse him alot and nag him alot its like a disease?

i cant stop he takes care of home he does for my little girl and she is not his we have one on the way though and it will be his first child. My problem is that i found a condom in his coat pockett three years ago he said he didnt use them i found it again this year once and last year once i know he cud be lien but he swears me down he does not cheat. I wanna believe him and give him the benefit of the doubt. Should i forgive him....this man does anything for me and my child and now im carrying his first child do you all think he can change if he is cheating. I really cant say he is doing anything he is always with me and is in the house early everynight now since he found out im pregnant. were having a girl. How can we make this work? He does not seem to wanna be with anybody else he says he wants to get married and b a family idk what to do but i know i should stop nagging him so much being that he brings in the bread

Could I replace the strawberry jam in this recipe with finely chopped strawberries?

I'm using this no-bake cheesecake recipe a href="http://www.mccormick.com/Recipes/Desserts/No-Bake-Strawberry-Cheesecake.aspx" rel="nofollow"http://www.mccormick.com/Recipes/Dessert…/a (I currently have no oven access and need to whip something up for a friend) but I'd rather use fresh strawberries than strawberry jam. If I were to very finely dice some strawberries, would I be able to mix them consistently enough throughout the mixture to get a similar effect?

Can I beat eggwhites with cane sugar?

I'm making a japanese cotton cheesecake, and it says to beat 6 eggwhites with 130g sugar. I've run out of caster sugar, but can I replace it with cane sugar instead?

What is your opinion on Amanda Knox? Innocent or guilty, why?

I know without a doubt that Amanda Knox is innocent. There is little to no actual evidence to convict her, and the judge who convicted her is mentally unstable, with his insane claims. He's also done this before, to a two guys, Mario Spezi and Douglas Preston, back in the 1980's. Douglas Preston wrote a book about it and about the killings (also the killer) that that same judge accused Mario Spezi in particular of committing, using the same BS claims of satanic cults and sh*t like that. The book is called "The Monster of Florence". I know that she's innocent.

Spring Pan Cake Recipe?

I need to make a cake and love the clear lines my spring-pan offers for cheesecakes and other goodies. I need a simple recipe that I can use with my pan that will come out with the same clear lines, without the mess!

Sunday, July 17, 2011

How can I make a really dense red velvet cake?

I would prefer it to be dense instead of the normal cakey-ness of it if that makes sense. Similar to how they have it on the Cheesecake Factory's red velvet cheesecake.

This is for all you Hungry Mommy to Be's :)?

Drink water! Eat healthier, so important for yourself and baby! Try bran cereal, eggs with wheat toast, freh fruit, dinner eat real meats (no hot dogs or fast food!) tons of veggies and rice or something!

What determines disability?

I have epilepsy I take very expensive prescription medication monthly as well as antidepressants. I was informed that I could file for disability. I am 21 work part am able to drive as long as I continue my medication. It is hard to make it without my parents help, they already pay my Insurance but is this something that could be a detriment to me in the future? Do I have to go on Medi Cal?

What would you do if your Step-mother-in-law sent you this email?

actual or not...... seems one uncouth was being chided by one overbearing snob......... however.... the points of manners are correct as stated.... generally appropriate most every where in "civilized" societies.... sadly children are not being taught as they once were...... in this case both involved were in violation

Am I being unfair? who is right, help?

I'm 22 and graduated last year, and I have a full time job. However, still live at home. I plan on going back to continue my education (medical field) in a year or so but my father has been throwing angry fits about how other children are independent at the age of 18, and that I am a detriment to my family because I don't contribute to the family. The problem is, school will cost a lot in the future as well. He's angry because he says he was working in trade school at 13 and I am beginning to resent him alot. I think I should be able to further my education but I feel guilty because he wants to retire. However, its not my fault they had me later in life, and now expect me to shoulder everything now. Who is right or wrong in this situation?

What did Boo Radley's father accuse him of doing in TKAM?

I'm doing a report on To Kill A Mockingbird, but I can't remember what Boo's father accused him of doing!

Is it me with the issue or my step-dad?

Hes ill and its up to you if you want to try to build bridges. May I suggest you think about it carefully as if you do decide to try to help you will need to be fully supportive and get him to see a doctor about his depression.

During your life have you ever changed the way that you think about?

All the time.For a while when I was younger I was extremely sexist and religious.Now I can't even stand the thought of church and have a healthy respect for women.As for politics,I've always hated every bit of it,lieing,stealing and cheap shots.All of this changed because of either epiphanies or just generally perceiving and experiencing life.

How can people claim the moral high ground, when they are immoral themselves?

It often seems that the very immoral claim moral high ground, they talk about all the things they don't do, like smoking, sex and drugs, and yet they do some very mean things like putting others down. Of course they do their immoral stuff "nicely" so they will look nice to others. Like that widow probably goes to church and stuff.

Sidereal/Vedic Astrology versus Tropical/Western Astrology?

The electional astrology, phonetical astrology, harary astrology etc. This is a science of indian astrology for free horoscopes. I think a natural pearl, coral shell or mineral with to perfection or astrological influence.

Does packaged cheesecake taste good?

It taste good but not as good as homemade cheese cake but not many people would know the difference (depending on what mix you use).

Which type of Industry or type of factory would i build to be well with my destiny?

For I had tried many combine business to my detriment and now i wish to build something for my future and my family which would not fail tomorrow.

What does it mean to be "integrated enough"?

I keep hearing this from several people telling those of us, who are first-generation Americans and the offspring of immigrants, that we are not "integrated enough". As long we speak English, become educated, and contribute to American society, why should it matter what we do on our personal time? If we prefer to be around others who are culturally like us during our personal time, what is the problem? This is not a detriment to American society or illegal.

Could it be that my parents assume I smoke because my siblings and friends do?

It could be your friends or siblings. If your parents know that your siblings smoke, they could want you to grow up with a better life. Also, same with your friends. But it could be that they don't trust that you only have done it a few times. You could just look like you do drugs. It might be the way you dress or the way you wear your make-up or anything really. If your grades have gone down or you're getting mood swings, they could be suspicious.

I have two english question?

1 looks right. 2 is okay. People often use the word "cozy" to mean pleasantly small. So adding a new room to the house would make it less cozy.

Letting go of the past?

Long story short... I don't know what it feels like to be in love or to feel happiness in any form. It's like all my senses have been numbed, but I don't have a problem expressing negativity and anger. My relationships don't last because after a few months i lose all interest in sex. I am in a relationship now and my partner has gotten to the point where she can't handle us not having sex anymore. She has become a miserable person and it's all because of me. We get on really well together and actually love each others company, but when it comes to being intimate, I just can't or won't allow myself to just be happy. I need help otherwise I'm gonna lose the person I know that is actually good for me... I was in an abusive relationship years ago and ever sense then i have had this problem... I think I am protecting myself to my own detriment

Why do I do this? Am I just lazy?

I'm a student, I live with 4 other people. Anyway, sometimes I just get lazy I pee in bottles and cups and leave them lying around in my draws, I also eat cheesecakes and stuff and leave the plates and litter in my top draw, often for months, I cleaned out my room and found an old Ben and Jerrys tub but it was half full of piss, I also found a 2 liter bottle of pee in my bottom draw which has been there for 3 months and it smelt rotten. What wrong with me?

Criticisms of Objectivism?

Truly objectivism isn't much of a philosophy but rather a sort of a cultish doctrine. Basically it's a collection of Ayn Rand's opinions, not a system to interpret some aspect of our existence through (which is what philosophy deals with). There is no inherent consistency to Rand's philosophy. She should support libertarianism for instance but chooses to reject it labeling it as "irrational" because of its association with anarchism. She also includes the tenet that one must be an atheist to be an Objectivist however this really doesn't organically derive from the social ideas in her "philosophy". If I had to come up with a sentence to describe Objectivism it'd be "existentialism with baggage."

PLEASE HELP, Cheesecake factory?

My friend asked me to go eat with her for her birthday, at the cheesecake factory, but I only have ten dollars. I don't want to be rude and not go though. So is there anything on the menu that I could get? If so what? I tried to look up their prices but they are very vauge.

Why is it that israel is accused of being an apartheid state when countries like?

saudi arabia kuwait libya sudan qatar jordan somalia and many others do not EVEN ALLOW JEWS TO LIVE THERE( not that any sane person especially female would want to) a href="http://www.masada2000.org/AccusingIsrael.html" rel="nofollow"http://www.masada2000.org/AccusingIsrael…/a

Does my boyfriend love me? Asking a more mature audience :)?

My boyfriend and I got in a fight last night... Not sure if he meant what he was saying... But anyways... I accused him of posting on his twitter "why doesn't the dmv hire some more hotties if we have to stay there so long" (he does have a dry sense of humor but it sort of made me mad).. He got defensive and started going off on me saying I was a "dumbsh**" and an idiot and retarted... I told him dont call me those things it's so disrespectful and it's pissing me off.. He said well you have such a thick skull its hard for me to get through to you... He said I don't get him and what not... Which idky he said that he just kept going on and on.. Then he brought up his ex gf's when all I was saying then just explain it to me(he said I shouldn't have to you should just get it by now) and don't call me those names.. He said he feels like he's walking on egg shells with me.. which idk don't think he does he shouldn't call me those things and if I feel something isn't right I am going to say something... His stories come so scattered and from time to time change just for the good of him to prove a point in the situation or argument we are in...He told me if I do something like this again we're done... I said don't threaten me like that..He said it wasn't a threat its a promise... Does he still love me... Did I do anything.. Is there something wrong with me??

My mom is mad at my dad so she took my ipod touch?

I'm 22 years old and still living at home while I save up to move out since I was going to college. my dad made some mistakes with money a while back and so my mom keeps taking stuff around the house and locking them in her room. He is working to make things right but she still holds it against him no matter what. She keeps taking things such as the wii remotes, the tv remotes, the cable boxes, my dad and brothers ipod touches, cell phone and other charging chords, my brothers playstation, brand new pots and pans to replace the one we have where the stuff that makes it non stick is flaking off and numerous other things. My dad asked to borrow my ipod touch when I went to bed last night. I came home from work this morning to find it missing. She denied it and called my dad a liar but whispered to me it was upsatairs and it was magically next to my bed. And any other time you disagree with her even for something stupid you are being disrespectful and you will find something of yours missing. She often plays stupid and denys it but it usually comes out. Its a lot of mind games. You think you misplaced something and ask if anybody has seen jt and she lies to your face and says she didnt see it. Or you tear the house apart looking for sonething and the next day its blatently out in the open. Stuff doesn't get returned for months. But don't get excited because within a day or two she will make up another reason to take it back. There is nothing left for her to take. I don't wanna stoop to her level and break into her room to steal stuff back. And same goes for taking her stuff. She will call the cops and accuse you of abusing her if you push past her if she is blocking you from walking away or if you try to taking something of yours from her hand. I really don't know what to do. Please help. I have a lot of self control but I'm very frustrated and its taking all my will power not to slap her across the face.

What would be the real world detriments of Canada disbanding its non peacekeeping army?

Why not, the Canadian military is already completely dependent on the US military to safeguard the continent.

My mother accuses me of being suicidal?

Okay I'm a 13 year old girl and I always say "life is a game and Im waiting for it to end" and I say "fml, wanna end it now" and another is "I might as well go jump off a cliff!" but my mother says I'm suicidal. I've always been like this though.

Isnt it true that Liberals would accuse the Bachmanns of not caring about the poor if the Husband didnt accept?

Maybe. But that is not the issue. We're pointing out *her* hypocrisy in being such a virulent critic of Medicaid, calling it "forced Socialism," and still getting money from it.

Why do so many people assume that people on Benefit's are 'Spongers' or 'Scroungers'?

Benefits are alright given to the right people but being disable is not a free pass to do nothing. I know a few people who work and are disabled, but when you see people getting a better deal than a worker that's when people complain.

Why do people think obama did not try hard enough and accuse him of being a closet republican?

or something like that, a middle of the road guy or slight right etc... while republicans/conservatives thinks he is a libby communist?

IS CAPITALISM A THREAT TO CIVILISATION?

Socialism is NOT the death of society. It allows for honest work to be present in a society and everyone lives a easy, planned life. In Capitalism, the hardest worker does not reach the top of the social ladder. On paper they do, but in practice, the harder worker is the blue collar worker who gets paid **** and dies from asbestos poisoning. Its not the hardest worker, but the biggest rat that gets to the top in capitalism. At least in socialism, there is far less corruption, youre guarenteed everything you need and you get paid to buy what you want.

What do i say to my former boss?

okay so i got fired from my job a few days ago (im only 15). and my parents were curious as to why i got fired, so they asked my bosses. they said that i did a bad job of following the general expectations, but the main reason was because they thought that i stole money (which i never did). their only evidence was a phone call from a parent, who claimed they overheard a conversation about me stealing money. so, my parents are really ticked off about it, especially because they were friends with my bosses. my mom says shes fine, but i know shes not. ive gotten over it, but im 100% sure that my mom is really upset that they would accuse me of stealing with so little evidence. i know she wants to say something to them, like maybe tell them off and say shes willing to move on, but she told my dad shed probably cry if she was to say something. i feel like i should say something to them, but i don't know what to say. i know my mom wouldn't want me to tell them off because she wants me to be mature about this. but i still feel like i should say something; like i should tell them how angry i am that they'd accuse me of theft, and how pissed i am that they made my mom this sad. but i just don't know exactly how to put it into the right words. thanks! best answer gets 10 points!

How to get good posture for figure skating?

i have really bad posture just in general, but its really a detriment to my skating and jumps. is there any way to get better posture?

Saturday, July 16, 2011

My Friend is feels Guilty for my Boyfriend Hitting Me?

No matter what you do or say, he's going to feel guilty and he's going to do everything in his power to protect you and make you feel better. In his head, it's his fault for allowing you to get hurt and it will be his fault in the future if you ever get hurt again. It's going to be hard to adjust for a little while but over time things will calm down and he wont be near as overprotective, until then- don't get upset with him, he's just trying to be your best friend. He's hurting a lot over seeing what happened to you- no one deserves to get hurt.

Girls, ive always wondered about this?

I can honestly say that I don't think of sex that often. Even when I masturbate, most of the time I will just concentrate on what is feeling good and of course the orgasm. I masturbate a couple times a week. Once in awhile after reading a book like a Twilight series book, I will think about sex when I masturbate, but not usually.

If God is so understanding, why will I burn in Hell?

In the parable of the rich man and Lazarus, Jesus tells us about a Pharisees trick to make people guilty of their sins. Whoever did so righteous on earth will be carried to Abraham's bosoms on the way to heaven. Whoever did so evil while on earth will go straight to hell. That is what they teach. Jesus made fun of this belief, because the rich man is asking Lazarus to dip his finger in water to quench the thirst of the rich man. The Bible tells us that Abraham died and they all need to wait the resurrections of just and unjust. Junk this Babylonian teachings. Hell is reserved for Lucifer and his cohorts who are spirit beings and will never die. Their ends will be in a big black hole and will be recycled as light. If you feel you are bad, stay bad and you will outgrow it someday.

What are your thoughts about this information I got in an email?

Do your own research and don't let FOX comedy network dictate how you feel about our president. That's my answer. Most of these idiotic diatribes are propaganda filled with factual holes you could drive a truck through. What bothers me is that recipients of this nonsense don't do any follow up or research, they think because it came in an email it must be true.

If the woman is 36 and the guy is 21, is it REALLY that awful?

He sounds like a keeper. So keep him. Age shouldn't make a difference if both individuals are on the same level. Communication is the key to a successful relationship.

Why do so many people assume that people on Benefit's are 'Spongers' or 'Scroungers'?

Alot of people cant help but to be on benefits , and ALOT MORE are lazy turds that can work but are way too lazy to . For sure , there is more people bludging on benefits that can work compared to people who have a genuine disability or sickness .

Does my dad have a right to be mad?

Whenever my family has a party my dad bakes a really nice cake with a message in frosting and everything. The last two were my brother's birthday and Mother's day. Well my birthday came along and what I got was a cheap a*s store bought cheesecake without any decoration. This happened several times before. So I pulled out a ten dollar bill this time and smashed it into the cake and left. My dad got all angry but I don't think he has a right to be angry at my anger. He's just looking for a reason to hate me more.

What can you use inside piping bags?

So I wan't to make a cheesecake for my boyfriends birthday, I've seen that a lot of cheesecakes and cakes have like the piping swirls on them? I bought a cheap piping bag today but I was wondering what to put in it? I don't want to have icing on it, If I whipped cream and made swirls out of that would they stay firm or go flat by the next day? really don't like icing, thank you :)

What are some really good cakes to bake? (apart from the usual)?

How about a German Black Forest Cake? Or the kind of three-layer coconut cake that women used to take to church potlucks. Or a Viennese Sacher Torte/

Bingeing, on healthy food, but still bingeing?

I have lost 21 pounds in 7 weeks through good old fashioned diet and exercise, and cutting booze out of my diet.Every once in a while, like today, I have a day where all of a sudden I'm just excessively hungry, and I binge on stuff like Yoplait yogurt, or cereal. This is good, healthy stuff, don't get me wrong. It's 100 calories, 0 from fat for each yogurt, and the cereal is Kashi. I get cravings for things like chocolate, cheesecake, pies, anything sweet and creamy and this is when I turn to yogurts. They have flavors like raspberry cheesecake and strawberry chocolate and french vanilla coconut. I quite literally had 7 yogurts today, 1 when I woke up, 3 in one sitting earlier, and 3 in another just now at 10 at night. I've never even seen somebody sit and enjoy a yogurt as much as I do. I literally savor each bite and scrape it out with my finger, my cravings for something sweet are that strong and I love it that much. Does anybody else have this problem, bingeing on sweet, but healthy foods, and how do you control it? Also, does anyone know if this could have something to do with lack of alcohol? I used to be a moderate to heavy drinker..and I used to be neutral to any and all sweet things..cakes and candies and ice cream were never part of my diet. I never went out of my way to eat them. Now I crave them on an almost daily basis, and I wanted to know if maybe it's because I used to drink so much wine and there is sugar in that and now my body is lacking it? I binge on yogurts and cereals because I don't buy cake and ice cream or any junk food for that matter. I bet I would eat 3 pieces of cake instead if I had that. I am a 23 year old female, 118 pounds, 5 foot 3, if that matters. Thanks.

My husband treats me like someone who is incapacitated. I am so lonely and depressed.?

How sad it must be to deal with a man who pretends to be one thing on the outside and someone else at home. You might want to consider some counseling - not only for yourself, but your marriage as well. If money is a factor, check some of the big churches in your area - many of them counsel people/couples for free.

Is there a bad side to eating too much pasta?

Pasta contains a lot of carbs. If you have a family history of diabetes, too much pasta can be a bad thing. One way to decrease that risk is to use whole wheat pasta. I'm not nuts on it, so I split it 50-50 with regular pasta.

If you don't care about a publications bias, does that make you a conservative?

Recently ask about a periodical that presented all war dead Americans as casualties, ones from other countries as slaughtered. Never mentioned the words liberal or conservative but was accused of being a liberal for asking the question. I can think of a lot of reasons to be called liberal, probably a similar number for being referred to as a conservative, but didn't realize question bias fell into either group. So, am I a liberal for asking the question?

Should the CAG’s role be restated in the post-1990 economic scenario, as desired by Mr Sibal?

CAG s role in India is vital.It is their constitutional duty and function to pinpoint the deviation from established procedure &policies of the Government to safeguard the Taxpayers money.They have several steps to conclude a deviation.Only exceptional and major deviations are brought to the notice of Parliament or Assembly.The elected Government is duty bound to deny or accept it.Therefore Sibal s views can not be accepted.

HELP !!!!! how to tell if a pre-paid electric meter is being hotwired?

If all the seals are in place then its impossible to have been tampered with.It is possible for her meter to be out of calibration which could account for the high cost,but then it could also be her use age,i.e she may have left her immersion on(very common problem,some people don't even know they have them and uses the same amount of power as a kettle)If in doubt she should get in contact with her energy provider who are legally bound to check the meter.By the way every time the meter gets read the meter reader has to check the tamper seals etc,.

Whats the purpose of "purity rings"?

A vain attempt to get kids to reign in their raging hormones that cry for a connection with the opposite gender.

Why are those against marijuana so stubborn to learn the Pro's?

there is absolutely nothing wrong with a natural plant that when burned, provokes abstract thoughts and ideas, creates a more social environment, makes food taste better, makes music sound better, makes you happy and brings out a child like curiosity of everything around you. People who say tis bad haven't even smoked it so they don't know shxt. They believe everything they are told by people who are against marijuana and think its bad because its illegal. It's illegal in most places because the gov. can't put a tax on it and can't profit from its use. Dave needs to stfu.

Is perjury even possible in this case?

So, I'm turning 17 this month, and I have yet to acquire my driver's license. A lot of that has to do with laziness and not having time to focus on it earlier in the year, but that's another story. So, I have to document 50 hours of driving, with exact dates and amounts of time. Even though I did make sure that I've driven well over 50 hours, I have no clue when I did the driving. I'm planning on just filling out random dates and times, and then getting my dad to sign it. At the bottom, though, it says: "I swear or affirm that the information I have entered on this form is correct. I understand that making a false statement may constitute the crime of perjury." What I'm asking is whether or not that's just there to scare kids into actually driving instead of being lazy. Also if they'd actually make any attempt to accuse someone of perjury, or am I just too cautious?

Best type of cheesecake....?

My b-day is next Sunday and my Mom and I are going to go order a b-day cheesecake (Cheesecake is my favorite <3) but i don't know what type of cheesecake i want... the bakery has every flavor i can think of! So what's your favorite flavor of cheesecake? :)

Neighbour false complaints?

I need help for my daughter, she is being accused by her neighbour of making a lot of noise, loud music and so on, these complaints are completely unfounded and untrue. She has now receive a letter from her estate agent saying that they will be speaking to the landlord and will be starting the eviction process. The thing is the lady next door has made it very clear that she does not like my daughter and has lied about her children being locked their room and screaming all night. She also says that my daughter is throwing things in her garden and has now got the other neighbour to back her up. My daughter is so sad as all of these things are not true and she does not know where to go now. The council have been no help as she is a private tenant, she lives on her own with her two young children and does not know what to do. please help.

How can you tell the difference between a guy that REALLY likes you vs a good guy friend?

A guy that really, really likes you spends money on you and wants to give you gifts. He likes you but are you sure he isn't gay?

Do you know how to do a cheesecake without an oven or oven?

Please help me if you know how or if some1 else told you the recepie!and tell me if you use an oven or u dont cuz i heard of both.Thanks if you answered or try ur best:)

Why is Israel helping the Kurd in Turkey?

Israel is helping Kurdish thugs because it together with US wants to make use of Kurds to suppress encircle Iran and Syria. At the time when their job with them ends those people will be thrown to dustpin just like a used toilet paper.

Help with dinner party! 3 course meal?

4 a starter hav like breadsticks and salad then hav like 2 different types of pasta 2 choose from 4 main course then hav like pie icecream or get a cake or somethin like that HOPE U HAVV FUUUUUUNN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

How are the liberals going to distract the American voters from Obama's record in the 2012 election?

By conducting a ruthless smear and burn campaign against the person(s) running against him. And lying egregiously about his "accomplishments". This will be the dirtiest nastiest political campaign ever. I am not looking forward to it.

What should I put on my oreo cheesecake?

I think fresh strawberries with a chocolate drizzle would be great. The strawberries will not dry out if you put plastic wrap over it. You might do the chocolate drizzle right before serving so it doesn't "sweat" and run!

How to fix my cheesecake (that I made with artificial sweetener)?

Sweeteners should be the ones for cooking not for adding to coffee or frozen and chilled recipes. What turns them bitter is the heat. This one could get some fruit topping, chocolate sauce or dairy cream, whipped and with sugar.

Opinion of wedding favors?

if you are only going to do one type i would go with the cheese cake ones. almost everyone loves cheese cake! not so many people like velvet cake though and some people are allergic to nuts. Adding your wedding colors would make them even cuter!! great plan, but make sure you have everything else done before hand or have someone else taking care of that stuff so you have time to bake and aren't rushed. If anything have a friend you trust help you bake them. chances are these little pops will be eaten before anyone can notice any little imperfections

Friday, July 15, 2011

I escalated my case on ebay?

You can keep asking this question and it will not change the outcome....ebay will either ask him to return item (they pay for return shipping) and you have to refund or they will refund him the money and let him keep the item and you are not responsible, meaning ebay wants to keep both of you happy. Once you escalated the case (which means to ebay that you and the buyer are done talking and now ebay gets to decide) if you lose you do not get that final value fee credit back for selling the item. You said yourself in your statement that you have not touched or played the instrument since high school. Ebay does not care about all of that, you will see....do tell what happens! People vouching for you is not going to work! lol..this is what you have to deal with when dealing on ebay and selling used items....example>>I sold a pair of used jeans in excellent condition, the buyer left positive feedback and everything. Come days later she opens a case saying the jeans were damaged with holes in them. Now mind you I have pictures of the jeans, ebay does not care. they message me saying they are giving the buyer a certain amount of days to send back item with tracking, if it hasn't arrived in the timeframe they will close the case. the buyer was lying and do you think she wanted to pay for return shipping? No, the shady person doesn't want to lose money! the case was closed, but it did not matter if I had pictures, and even asked her to send pictures of the holes, ebay doesn't allow this! they will look at the pictures you posted in the listing that is it. some buyers will even switch your item with their broken one!!! you have to be very careful when dealing with used item because you have shady buyers who look for sellers that they can trick! and ebay knows this about sellers and buyers so they try to be fair in their judgment, but you there is no way that just because you can't refund money back does not mean that they won't make you!!

Is there any benefit/detriment to using integral scope mounts?

These kind of rings will definately give you a more stable, rigid, and secure mounting system. Since the rings and bases are one piece, there is no need to worry about loose bolts where the rings contact the base. Also, this will give you exact, perfect aligning with the scope centered on the reciever. Unless you have a 50mm objective on your scope, go with the standard height option.

Do SAPO protection orders carry any weight in a criminal case? what is needed to over turn a SAPO?

I was falsely accused of rape and the judge granted the other party a sapo. what do I need to do to get rid of this order and will it make a difference in court?

Some advice about a relationship where shes 10 years older than myself?

I've always liked older girls. She's 30 and I'm 20. My problem is that she's at an age where she has all her life set. Like, she has 2 kids oldest is 11, lives on her own I THINK, cause when we talk she never mentions her being at work, so I don't know if she works, and she mentioned there's 5 girls at her house, her and her 2 kids. She didn't go into the other two, so they could be female cats or dogs you know. Any way, where I'm getting at is whether she lives alone or not, I still live with my mom. I'm going to college and only work part time less than part time actually but I don't want her to think I'm a kid you know? I was at a job where I was getting 600 every two weeks so if I can get to a situation like that again, I'll be out of here. She seems really cool, likes me and I like her, I just don't want this age difference to be a detriment to us. If I was like 30 and she was 40 this wouldn't be a problem. I just don't want her to think I'm a kid who doesn't do anything, and I don't know how I should act around her cause she's older

Semi-difficult dessert recipes?

A souffle is supposed to be fairly difficult because they can fall so easily. You can search souffle or chocolate souffle in a search engine or recipe website like www.allrecipes.com or www.recipzaar.com.

How do i adjust the baking time for mini pies?

Ive only made the reg 8-9" sized ones and have been wanting to make mini pies and cheesecakes but dont know how long to bake them for. would i have to adjust the recipe. Any tips? please :)

I found a locked iPhone. Can I sell it on eBay?

A couple months ago, I found a password locked iPhone. I called ATnT to see if I could get the contact info of the owner so I could return it, but for some reason even with the SIM number they couldnt get the info. They told me if the owner called looking for a reported found iPhone, they would contact me. This was 2 months ago. Now Im ready to get this waste of space of my hands, but is it legal? I dont want to get in trouble for selling this property I found then get accused of selling "stolen" property. Also, is there a market for password locked iPhones? Are there people who would be able to unlock it and make it useable? Thx in advance for your answers.

Proper work out questions?

i'm 18 and i just recently picked up working out again (i have in the past, but for some reason never truly dedicated myself to it, but now i am). i've been working out for maybe 3-4 weeks now, strictly push-ups because i'm conditioning myself for serious. at first i did roughly 5 or 6 sets of 20 a day; then 25, and now i'm at around 7 sets of 30 a day (with a rest day once a week). keep in mind i'm a beginner for the most part, although i have potential and some knowledge. however, due to certain circumstances, my work out begins at night and i spread the push-ups over a few hours, while doing other things (ending in the early morning - i've had sleep problems recently). my question is this...is working out during the night and then going to sleep detrimental to my progress? i see some progress but it doesn't seem enough for 3-4 weeks. i don't know, maybe 3-4 weeks won't yeild as much progress as i'm expecting, and i should just stick with it. also on a side note, i don't eat totally unhealthy, but i'm prone to junk foods (not an unhealthy amount). i also eat healthy though. but will these fatty foods also be a detriment? and also, i have a big bottle of creatine i haven't used yet because i'm waiting til i become dedicated. it says 5 g in a 8-10 oz drink...is that before, during, or after. answer all the questions as best you can and i'll give you the 10 pts

Christians: Do you think your theologians over-complicate what should be evidently simple?

The problem with theologians is simlar to that of atheists actually. Very astute. Both want everything packaged up neatly. That isn't the case. There are lose ends in theology and life and that is ok. It's ok that some things just don't make sense. Think about it, God is far more above us than a city is above an ant. How can we expect an ant to understand the complexities of New York City? How can expect a mortal human being to understand God?

What are your thoughts on modern feminism?

Wait, this is modern feminism...I think modern feminism is for women who expect too much out of society.

Has your child fought back physical attacks or embarrassment by an abusive teacher or aide ?

Some time ago my grade school son was accused of striking a teacher , meeting with the school staff to avoid suspension my son had a psychologist recommended by the school to find out what's wrong (he did not display this behavior at home) long story short the teacher reporting this bad behavior was physically abusing my son by kicking him in the back , on one occasion he fought back in the same manner which prompted the teacher to use the system to punish him. At the school meeting prior to the school recommended psychologist sessions, the teacher who did this revealed herself and her level of rage by acting very defensive to the embarrassment of the school board members. After this incident I lost all faith and trust in school staff , I felt they knowingly lied about the situation. The details not mentioned by this teacher with other children as victims and witnesses came out in a full report to the school. My son is almost thirty now , but I'll never forget that lying teacher . From what I've seen and heard across the country and the corruption going on with school officials and the wasting of funds they deserve to lose their collective bargaining rights. Please post your experiences with out of control school staff , and always question school authorities for the facts. If your kid's school calls you and says your kid hit a teacher and the police were not called something is already wrong.

My boyfriend thinks hes right all the time!?

whatever i say is either wrong or non existent. like he asked me about the requirements for getting held back a grade in school and i told him what they were and he declared that i was wrong. then i said he abused me and he started saying he's never hit me or raped me and i said he VERBALLY abused me and he started saying there was no such thing! he gets bad grades so he accuses me of cheating just because i have good grades. and when i tell him im texting a friend he ALWAYS guesses that its another guy and he wont take no for an answer. it gets so annoying how he thinks he's always right. he's even said "im always right" andd when i say no he stillll argues! he even argued with me about our anniversery andd my eye color! like wtf. those are two things im positive i have the right answer to! what should i do ?!

Scorpio Ex attempting to reel me back in I think....advise/clarity needed!!?

Ok so I have this Scorpio ex that has been trying to get back in touch with me recently. We have been dealing with each other on/off since 2008 (I'm a Cancer). I still do love him genuinely and it seems that whenever we reunite, it is 10X mores passionate then it was the time before. I really need to get a handle on this situation because i feel like he is the only guy i allow to break all my rules, he is my exception. We have this like magnetism to one another that neither one of us can control. He had seen me for the first time just recently and the fire and passion in his eyes said a thousand words. We had lost contact for about 2 months because i had got a new phone and didnt give him the number (in a attempt to try to ween myself off of him). I bumped into his friend the other day and he made me aware that my ex had been mentioning me lately and had called him to stalk my facebook page to see what i had been up to, although i deactivated months ago. The thing is everytime he goes back into my life he tries to control everything and have it on his terms. He wants me all to himself and wants to give me wants he wants. For example, I want a committed relationship with him and he wants a baby to me. He says once i have a baby he will be able to fully trust me and i will be forever his and whatnot. I did have an abortion to him last year that he didnt find out about until it was over because i didnt want to live that life. I didnt want to feel like i was forced into this prisoner of life type of situation. He is extremely possessive, jealouse controlling, but what i dont understand is his need to have this baby so bad. I have been distancing myself as much as possible from opening that can of worms again because i am afraid of what hidden motivations he has. He has this crazy mentality that if he cant have me no one can and that once his always his. My love for him is strong, no doubt, however I dont want to cause myself more emotional detriment because my sanity relies on it. I have been through the ringer and back with him, we have gone through so much but it only seems to make our bond thicker and therefore harder to break. I dont know whats going on or what to do? Any insights are appreciated. Thanks

Will taking AP courses be a detriment when entering university?

No, it won't be a detriment. It may require you to catch up on certain aspects of the course that you may not have covered in AP bio, but it should have prepared you to take the next level of bio, since teachers need to be certified by a college in order to say that it requires what needs to be covered by the course in college terms and for the AP exam.

Why is my husband being so heartless?

We had no major problems. We both work, We both pay bills, We both keep the house clean. Very good partnership. The last couple months he has been talking about life is getting routine and he's getting bored. I thought maybe he was starting to have feelings for someone at work so I asked him about it. He said I was accusing him of cheating and really got pissed. But, we worked through it and we have had our normal little fights, no big deal. My birthday was Sat. and he didn't even get me a card. He had to be at work early on Sunday, so I went out with my friend and his mother for my birthday. I came in and was loud (drunk) and woke him up and left the dogs out. This made him very angry. That's the first time I have gone out with out him in the 4 years we've been together. He goes out atleast every other week. No big deal when he wakes me up at 4 and I have to be up at 6 the only thing he ever heard from me was, did you have fun? This stupid little argument over me waking him up early turned into him telling me to get out. I packed my stuff and went to a friends house. On Monday we got together to talk and he said he wants to separate. So, I'm living out of a suit case at a friends house away from our house, our dogs and our life together because he said he needs time to figure out what he wants. He's not sure. He said he still loves me, but needs time to think. We haven't even been married 2 years. I told him he was being very selfish and taking me and his life for granted. He agreed, but says this is just how it is: I need time and space. How can he be so heartless? What should I do?

Do you think it's a conflict of interest for General Electric CEO Jeff Immelt to be on Obama's counsel?

Yep, I believe that Ismelt should go, but since when did things like that ever matter to a democrap. Unless they could use it as a claim against a Republican and use the lamestream media to do their bidding.

What may I being too inappropriately and how can I stop acting this way?

I have the exact opposite problem! Well flirting with the priest and your dad is CREEPY! Unless he is a cute priest, lol.

Which restaurant has cheesecake?

All of them if they have a dessert menu. Cheesecake is one of the most popular desserts a restaurant can serve.

Am i banned on Black ops?

I don't think your actually banned maybe it's a different problem but umm...since when are there tomahawks on one in the chamber? :l

Herman Cain and Fox News accusing Jon Stewart of Racism because Stewart used Amos And andy?

if Cain wins the nomination... cons will use the race card 10 times more than liberals ever imagined...

My mom won't talk to me? I have important things to tell her?

Woah with all do respect to your mom but she is one cold woman.My.parents,even if we fight,they would never turn their backs on me in the time of need.Their good people. Anyways back to your question.Theres many things ive learned throughout my life and that is its better too walk alone in the right direction than too have others walk with you when only you come across a rock on the road and they leave you without a care in the world.What i mean by that is that sometimes your better off alone than having many people around you.Take a look at your friends and mother.They didnt help you.So dont sit around and beg for them to change their mind and even though you have to walk across a busy highway,id rather do that and show that im stronger than cry for help and look weaker.But hey your choice.Id talk sence to her and apoligize but it doesnt look like shes going to accept it.But you tried and thats all that matters.Things will get better.trust me you just wait and see

Who cares for your pets when you are arrested?

The animal control agency is sent in to seize the animals. They are either awarded to a care agency or back to the owner. But all this will be charged to the owner and the bills must be paid.

When everything boils down to the nitty gritty: aren't human rights and the idea of god/religion a bunch of?

So I'm going to ignore most of this question in assuming most people believe in separation of church and state. But how are human rights damaging us? Isn't that what you are directly speaking to here? Advancements in human and animal and environmental rights? Perhaps you have a different definition of "Human Rights" than me.

What's the difference between a guy liking you and falling in love?

What a keeper :) Obviously without watching your relationship unfold, its hard to deduce if its love but either way, keep at it! This guy sounds like a real catch and you should see where it takes you! Try doing little things for him as well (suprise him at work with lunch one day) you know, little thigns to show how much you appreciate having him in your life. You'll know sooner or later where you two are going! :)

How does subsidizing unproductive people, enhance the "welfare" of the United States?

Concerning what the previous answerer says, we could take those same babies and turn them into slaves and use their labor to promote the welfare of the United States. The factor here is what is moral to do, not what merely promotes welfare of the country. In the case of welfare, that is supposed to be a state issue and not even concerned with the Constitution of the United States. So no, food stamps and free education are irrelevant via the Tenth Amendment.

Low carb cheesecake in Michigan?

My mom wants to get my dad cheesecake for fathers day! But it HAS to be low carb!!! The only place we can find some at is at the cheesecake factory but that will cost at least $50. Can someone please help us find some! Thank you!!

Do you believe that atheistic beliefs are a detriment to society?

I heard of a young woman commiting suicide and quoting some atheist. The basic gist of what she said was there was no point in living.

Why do people hate me/call me ''emo'' for liking blood on the dance floor :\?

I hate botdf because thier sense of music and the lyrics have no affiliation with my life... Too me it sounds like the music is meant to sound good not have a meaning. But truthfully I don't give a damn what music you listen too

Should cameron propose a standard world wide corporation tax.?

I'm afraid Alf that anything Cameron proposes to the world will fall on deaf ears. Noone in Britain believes anything he says anymore, so why would the world be any different? In fact, whatever Cameron proposes, it is more likely that the world will do the exact opposite, just to spite him.

Why do so many people assume that people on Benefit's are 'Spongers' or 'Scroungers'? I feel the need to rant!?

to many people you are getting money you have not earned.... you have to develop a very thick skin and not let ignorance affect you

Please help me!!! as soon as possible?

Me and my dad used to be soo close but ever since he met his girlfriend he acts like he cant stand me I really miss having my dad around on my birthday he yelled at me he only does it around her so I think he is trying to impress her but anyway she takes my clothes and wears them and streches them out and when I tell my dad he told me not to accuse people and she also stole my brand new very exspensive perfume you can hear them doing it eww and shes only around when my dad gets paid he spends his whole pay check on her then she leaves and he gets mad is I say I want something what should I do?

Is the lame accusation of calling Obama a Socialist, a veiled statement?

The concept of 'Equality For All' is a founding principle of Socialism. The fact that America's past and present remains a story of gross inequalities, accusing Obama of being a Socialist reeks of his accusers guilt, ignorance and fear! (Especially when Obama has followed suit on most of Bush's Neo-Con policies)

Typically how much would this be?

So at i'm going to iHop next Tuesday and I have to pay for my own food cuz my parents aren't coming so I want to know how much I should bring for a stack of new York cheesecake pancakes and one cup of hot chocolate? Thanks!

Thursday, July 14, 2011

Do you think I am a 'Scrounger' for claiming Benefit's?

Well rule one is never feel any guilt for being unwell !! Just look how many people from afar who milk the system ! Use the money to better yourself but don't take it for granted . If you are still uneasy give some to a charity !!!! take care.

I need some help! any advice?

I think u should figure out a better meeting place for child exchange. If u can provide better for your child why dint u seek to increase custody/visitation since she's living like a kid. U should stay going to church an talk to your priest/pastor/minister to try and accept you can't change the way your ex is and u don't want your child to see u or any1 treating his mom meanly- even if she's a total slut. Good luck

How should I deal with my obnoxious cousins?

Stand up for yourself. I am from a big Irish family so I have alot of cousins. I have had to stand up to them a few times. Some people just need to be told to stop. To get the hint. Good luck, but they are family so you have to love them anyway regardless of how much of a pain in the butt they can be.

How can you tell the difference between a guy that REALLY likes you vs a good guy friend?

Are you with anyone cause if you are not, why are are you not with this guy. He clearly likes you and your baby. If you feel safe with him then why not be with him. Please don't lead him on. He clearly likes you and really enjoys your company. You will never know what could have been if you don't give it a chance. You never know. Go for it. If you need any more advice drop me an email at advice_from_experience at yahoo. Good Luck

How to get away from my dad!?

I am 14. I was living with my dad all the way until i was 13. It went down hill between us when i was 11. He constantly yelled at me for things i had no control over. He would threaten and even hit me once or twice. "I tore the family apart" i was "a little ***** like your mom" Those were only some of the things that would be shouted at me as i was pushed and yelled at. He drinks and when i asked him to stop he accused me of calling him a drunk. He takes what i say out of context and threatens me with it. At the begining of 7th grade i had had enough and i ran away after school. I was only pushed to that after months and months of fighting with him and getting blamed for everything that goes wrong. He would come home frustrated and no one knew when he was going to blow. But i was always the subject. I thought running away would bring the cops attention to my father but they laughed in my face. Along with my dad. They had no idea what kind of hell they were dropping me back into. For that whole year i was in and out of deppression, cutting myself, and had post dramatic stress symptoms such as numbness to the world and that thing where your body wont move when you are awake. Where you open your eyes but your body still is in a sleeping state. It was the scariest thing that would ever happen to me. I would get it a couple times a aweek. My mom finally threatened him with a lawsuit if he hadnt handed me over. Which he did. I am getting better but the transition from the big city to small town life was hard too. But i finally have some friends and am going to my highschool three times a week to workout with them. But this whole last year has been constant fighting. Back and fourth. Now he says he is taking me back. He wants to drag me back to the city for offering him money in an email so i can go visit my ailing grandmother. He got mad and said he was taking me away from my mom. But i wont go back to the depression and the numb feeling. I just got over it. I stopped cutting months ago. Im finally fitting in and doing things i love. Its like he doesnt want me to be happy. What can i do to get away from there. He has friends at the police station in chicago and has placed himself in good tidings with powerful people. I feel trapped. I just cant go back there. I was even considering suicide when i was there. Please someone tell me what to do?

Is this the rich lining their own pockets- and is it unethical if they are in politics?

Of course wages are an expense for any business - you clearly have no idea at all how business runs. You pay tax on profit not on turnover.

What's one single food (not a recipe) that you could just sit down and eat a whole plate of?

This Indian dish called biryani. Meat marinated for a day odd and then layered and cooked with saffron rice. Or shrimp cocktail, lasagna, chicken fried rice, cheeseburgers, cheesecake, apple pie lol the list goes on but I'll stop here

Was I right to treat my mom like this?

you kinda do and when your dad is ready show him the text messages about her cheating and she does not have the right to hit you guys

Can a cheesecake spoil if sitting out in a very cool room for 12 hours?

I accidentally left my cheesecake overnight in the oven after baking it. (the oven was off). It is winter here in Australia and the kitchen is very cool. It was made with cream cheese, sugar, sour cream and eggs. It looks great. I hate to throw it out. Any chefs out there have advice? Thank-you.

"Don't mace me Bro!" - Cop sprays mace on baby squirrel in front of school kids?

Lol.You could tell he wasn't entirely sure how to deal with that little hot potato.Probably should've just squished it ,muhaha!

How to throw my first BBQ?

That actually sounds like a really fun party! If it is going to go long into the night, you could probably show a movie using a projector on the garage door for fun! Have lawn chairs because people like to sit. Your food options are very good and well varied for everyone. If you wanted anymore food ideas you should have a BUNCH of fruit...definitely watermelon because it is such a summer food. I would also add something as simple as cookies to the dessert because not everyone likes cheesecake or pie. It would be cool to set out picnic blankets or something for everyone to eat on.

What is the URL for the game app falsely accused and the handphone code?

I have the cd in the player tv won't turn on I don't understand city and pli and 315 shows up twice in the room

Am I A Psychopath? Crazy? Anomalous? Completely normal...?

This looks like pretty good evidence to believe it. I have 19 out of 20 traits of a psychopath though and I still know I'm not one. I haven't been tested I just know inside I'm not a psychopath I just go through life differently and more violently. Go by what you believe, if you want a guarantee then see a psychiatrist. Hope this helps.

How do I make my boyfriend appreciate me?

you cant make someone appreciate or respect you either they do or they dont and if they dont then dont waste your time hoping that they will. men know excatly how they are going to treat a woman the day that they start dating you. look at little signs a guy give you when you first start dating that will show you how a guy will be x by 10 lol. if you dont like it at the begining then get out ccause it only gets worse not better hun. :)

What exactly is "bettering the breed"?

When I think of bettering the breed, I think of breeding the dog that is excellent at doing the thing it was originally bred to do. I think a border collie should be a champion in herding or obedience and confirmation if it is to be bred. I personally think it is more important for a dog to be a champion at what it was bred to do then just be a companion. Well, Bulldogs, Pekignese, and Basset Hounds were bred to look that way originally anyway, and I think they should only be bred if they haven't experienced genetic health problems. There are some breeds that were even originally bred to look that way, so I don't think of confirmation as making the breed worse, because they have always been that way. When it comes to a breed like the German Shepherd, THAT is when I get upset with confirmation, because of how messed up their spines and hips are. So many champion German Shepherds in confirmation have had OFA testings that show up as deformed because of how confirmation says they should look. Working German Shepherds can't compete in confirmation because they don't conform to breed standards, and gets me quite annoyed. I think that MOST breeds should always be entered in conformation to breed, but there are some exceptions that just make the breed worse, like the German Shepherd.

What is your opinion on Amanda Knox, guilty or innocent, and why?

I know without a doubt that Amanda Knox is innocent. There is little to no actual evidence to convict her, and the judge who convicted her is mentally unstable, with his insane claims. He's also done this before, to a two guys, Mario Spezi and Douglas Preston, back in the 1980's. Douglas Preston wrote a book about it and about the killings (also the killer) that that same judge accused Mario Spezi in particular of committing, using the same BS claims of satanic cults and sh*t like that. The book is called "The Monster of Florence". I know that she's innocent. What is your opinion?

How can I get rid of the anger inside of me?

You sound like me. You should talk to a close friend. Or in my case a random person online. You have to learn to deal with it. I did. You could confront your grandma too.

What is the name for the type of cheesecake that you cook?

I like to make cheesecake, but just the simple kind, and I was wondering what the name is for the cheesecake that you cook. Thanks! :D

Does having unachieved goals mean you're unhappy?

I think that her concept is silly, sorry. But you can be happy or unhappy in whatever position of life youre in. Some of the richest most beautiful people are so unhappy to the point of suicide. And vise versa, some of the poorest people are the happiest. I mean really, if you arent working on goals in your life, what the hell are you doing?

Is this a viable lawsuit?

Chalk it off. Unfortunately, this matter may have been embarrassing, but embarrassment itself is not actionable, you were not damaged monetarily, and it is not the type of case worth pursuing.

How to get rid of a 16 yr old stalker that put a relationship in bad repair mode?

Next time you know not to take such young babysitter, you did the right thing. Continue to keep your guard and try to rekindle your family.

Its been a month since i spoke to my friend. should i get in contact or just forget about him?

He seems obsessed with you. You have the right to have a life beyond him. If you aren't talking I would suggest taking that opportunity to get away from him. It may be hard to leave a friend behind, especially when you really think of them as a good friend. But It's also hard to have a friendship with someone who likes you more than you like them. Unless he finds someone (A girlfriend) I would suggest leaving him alone. You don't necessarily have to forget about him though.

I am feeling very depressed (very long, would like someone to talk to as well?)?

That's messed up. Sugar, you can't handle this all without the help of a mental health professional. Self harming is a mental illness. Right now it might look trivial to you but in future it can turn into a big problem for you. I have went through all that there was a point in my life when i had no friends because people thought i was insane. All this has a lot to do with how you feel your parents treat you. The good news is, you can stop feeling so miserable with the help of some therapy or even medicines. You can live a happy normal life. 16 is a very young age, you have a long way to go. Check with a doctor fast, and start your life anew. Good luck!

Cascada and Lady GaGa?

I wanted to get everybody's different opinions on this.But who do like better Lady GaGa or Cascada?Me I like them both personally I love Lady Gaga and Natalie Horler lead singer of Cascada.The reason why I ask this question is because here latley Cascada has been accused of riping off Lady GaGa's sound.Which Natalie has said is not true at all and I remember reading somewhere Lady GaGa said that she was a big fan of Cascada and said they were the ones that brought back dance music to America radio stations.So my question is who do you like Cascada or Lady GaGa and why?

Help with facts on utilitarianism?

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What does it mean to be "integrated enough"?

I keep hearing this from several people telling those of us, who are first-generation Americans and the offspring of immigrants, that we are not "integrated enough". As long we speak English, become educated, and contribute to American society, why should it matter what we do on our personal time? If we prefer to be around others who are culturally like us during our personal time, what is the problem? This is not a detriment to American society or illegal.

If i have been accused of assault will that cause detriment to my partners claim for contact with his son?

My partner put in for contact of his son with an ex partner, the day after she recieved the papers 4 of her friends attacked me, obviously i have fought back. they are now claiming that i attacked them (because a sane person would attack a group of girls on her own) and are trying to have me arrested for assault......my partners ex has txt me after this incident and said that i ''played into their hands and now my partner will never be granted access'' is this correct?

How would you answer difficult interview questions?

You can't be rude. You got that right. Public image can make or break a person. I have been in advertising and PR for over 40 years and have had to be nice. That seems hard for you. You can write down FAQ and have pat answers. You can say, give me a call at the office and I'll find some time to answer some of those questions. Don't give them a business card and make it easy for them to reach you. Let them do the research. Most people actually never follow up. If someone does call you can say it's not a good time and at least delay the process. If they persevere and call again accept the question and tell them you have to think about that more seriously because what worked for you is not necessarily right for them. Call them back during the day and probably you will get their machine message. You can either leave a quick answer or continue telephone tag. Come up with some answer because it is the persistent people that can bad mouth you because they expect an answer after all their hard trying. You can also hire someone in public relations as your agent and tell them call my assistant and they can help you. I have to run to another appointment and now I'm running late.

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

I've finally met with the woman I've chosen to court; how did I do?

Go ahead & pop that cork!!! I'd say you had quite an enchanting encounter with your old/new found friend. I believe the ONLY situation you're going to regret is your "cabin in the woods"...But with your way with words, I'm SURE you can come up with some fancy type of interpretation of your description being that of what you perceive/perceived in your mind...the best to you...:)

Agree or disagree: Roberto Luongo is a detriment to the Canucks success and cost them the Cup?

Personally I disagree and feel that Luongo didn't play very well but where were the Sedins when it mattered? No where to be found. Where was the vaunted defense? Where was the lethal power play and gritty penalty kill? It wasn't all Luongos fault and it bothers me that people continue to pile the blame on him. I'm a Habs fan but I'm going to university in BC so I read all about the Canucks and it was a disappointing lose for them but they were clearly outplayed.

Has anyone ordered a cake from English cheesecake company?

If so, were they good? What flavours would you recommend? What are they like in terms of flavour and texture, and are they baked or unbaked?

What would you do in this situation?

If your bf constantly accused you of cheating, even though you never have? Even if you never gave him any reason to think that? What if it was his insecurities from a past relationship? Even after fighting about it constantly and him telling you each time he was sorry and he wouldn't do it again.

How to make Jell-O Pie?

If I'm making a pie/cheesecake just from a jell-o mix and a graham crust...do I still freeze the crust before adding the jell-o mix? Or just refrigerate?

Which would you prefer? Peanutbutter cheesecake or Peanutbutter pie? And why?

I'm going to make one for Father's day for my husband and he's a big Peanutbutter fan. I've never had either, but I love cheesecake, but the recipes for PB pie look awesome too. As far as the texture and taste, could you give me your opinions.

If a planet is in fall in a sign does that indicate a place a person may struggle?

And if that be the case since the sun represents a persons individuality and vitality would that mean a Libra, who's sun is in fall, would struggle to be an individual and lack the courage to live outside the approval of others? It seems to me that would mean that everyone born in late September through mid October is inheritantly flawed as an individual. Same goes for Aries which is in detriment in the Sun. They seem to have the opposite problem that Librians have and have a real inability to relate to others well. I am struggling with this over here because I can't wrap my brain around the idea that there is a entire sect of people who are just doomed to have this internal struggle with self.

Do you think one of the problems with black people is we are too accepting of other people?

I mean, of course to be accepting is a good thing in general. But I've been watching two BBC shows, one called "Tribal Wives" - about white British women who travel the world and live with tribes, some of them in Africa, and another show from the BBC called "One of the Tribe" where a guy named Bruce Parry lives with tribes as well. In all of these shows where they go live with African people (black people), they are always greeted with open arms, they even go as far as to say the newcomers are one of them, even saying things like, While your here, we consider you like our son or daughter, and these are white people we are talking about. I think that is the one of the main reasons why the Egyptian empire fell, is because we as darker hue people are very open and honest, and accepting of all people. I mean I know its hard to go against our nature, but do you think being this way comes as great detriment to our people? I mean I don't want to be anything like white people and their way of thinking, but I do think there should be a gray area, and middle ground as to not ever be taken advantage of by people who don't have this peaceful nature.

Are Feminist more or less like Marxists? (Although they claim its about equality)?

"Feminists" (even if they don't know it or admit it) are Marxists, and it is one of the core tenets of Marxism that; that a person or group (in this case men) cannot advance unless it is to the detriment of another group, in this case women.